Jola Jovani on Instagram: "in a successful long term relationship we may have to mend something we did not break. That does not mean becoming responsible for your partner’s insecurities but it does mean being willing to become a place of comfort for someone so they can finally learn to put their guard down. Not to mention that in the vast majority of cases you are absolutely part of the problem which means you should be involved in being part of the solution as well."