Dr. Arthur Brooks on Instagram: "When I first fell in love with my wife, it was a whirlwind of passion and excitement. We didn’t even speak the same language, but I was determined to make it work. At that time, I wouldn’t have appreciated the idea of "companionate love"—I was chasing a romantic adventure. But 33 years later, I can see clearly that it’s our friendship that has made our marriage successful and fulfilling. Passion may have brought us together, but it’s the deep connection, trust, a