It can feel confusing and painful when a Dismissive Avoidant partner suddenly says they’ve “lost feelings” — but most of the time, it’s not sudden at all. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down what’s really happening when an avoidant detaches, and how you can respond with clarity and compassion, without abandoning yourself. You can stop personalizing their distance and start understanding what’s actually going on beneath the surface in our Dismissive Avoidant Intro Course. Available for Free f

Sometimes, Dismissive Avoidants only recognize the effort and care their partner gave after the relationship ends. At the time, their fear of being trapped or overwhelmed keeps them from fully appreciating the connection. This video breaks down why Dismissive Avoidants hesitate to return, what their reflection process looks like, and how understanding this dynamic can help you protect your own heart and move forward with clarity. Stop trying to predict or fix avoidant behavior — focus on your ow